11th May 2011
-My birthday!- and i have turned 20.

meh. its like saturday now. lazy afternoon for me. i want to go for a jog later but i have no idea if i will go, or i will continue to rot at home. @.@

anyhoo, i always wanted to blog about my awesome birthday this yeah by my awesome friends, and my awesome boyfriend! but im so tired i just want to sleep sleep sleep. until last night my 30 mins nap turned into 3hours of sleep. so i only slept 4am in the morning, and now i want to sleep again. if this continue, i believe my bio cycle sure go crazy.

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alright, this is a birthday surprise from my awesome cliques! they know i have no sch on my actual birthday, so they gave me a surprise on tuesday instead. and im having DAV that day, im singing the birthday song while carrying the super heavy video camera.

well, all i can say is that i really appreciate their gestures and all the fun they have bring to me while studying. all the stress and all the fucked up mood can be chilled while being with them. i really cnt imagine how to survive this 3 years with only all the geeks, i can really cry and go crazy.

i have to admit sometimes their jokes are too harsh and the guys nvr give chance even if you are a girl. but lucky, i still can take it. hahaha!

and then that night i Kords gave me presents from Smiggle! he went there with his GF and they buy me 2 v cute eraser, 2 pencil and a notebook, well i guess i wont use them? they are too cute alrdy. :) and a ang bao from my mum when i wake up in the morning, its by the side of my bed.

but all im waiting is just wednesday, to go out w Jetro to sentosa. :) and now bcos of the that BiQin keep say me 有异型，没人性! wtf. nvm, let her blame me, she also know i very busy one, but i nvr forget you and Ah Ho hor! ...

i prepared egg mayo sandwich, seaweed chicken and drumlets for the trip to sentosa. awesome but i am the only one eating bcos Jetro 吃饱了! humph! HAHA! neh mind, my gain. :| of fats.

and this small teddy bear key chain is from Jetro! from a big one to a small one. but i still love it as much! he tell me, although small but the meaning is very big. yeah i know :) and its a couple bear. hahaha. and also got bling bling. LOL.

and we toured the underwater world, the luge the beaches and lepak there all the way. all i can say im very grateful for him to travel all the way here to spend a day with me and travel all the way back after a long tiring day. and i really appreciate all the little things that he have done for me.

and of course all my other friends too, whom have celebrated my birthday, and wishing me on my birthday.

i have no idea why, but i feel different for my birthday this year. i dunoe how i should put it but i feel great and much more appreciated.

alright, i have i finally finish updating my blog. for dunoe how long. and watching tv and eating and doing every thing. i know i cant multi task. pfft. byebye. aft this show im gg jogging!! :))

:) :| :(

yeah, i dunoe what and how i should be feeling right now. i am quite happy im living my life quite fruitfully as of now. i nvr take aftnn naps aft sch, because i rather use the time to complete my work or im at sch busy with FYP.

i really want to fully utilize my time i have with all the things i have. i have a laptop, a DSLR, a wacom but i just let them collect dust. i should make full use of them to learn new things. i duwan to just now a little of all these things, i want to know more and learn more. hope i will be able to master some skills..

yeah although i am living my life fruitfully, i am getting really tired man. i also feel my health deteriorating. my knees are the worst. last wed i went to swim for 1hr15mins straight and my knees are acting up alrdy. i dunoe what is happening. i really hope its just that there is not enough calcium. i dont wish its some injuries acting up now when i had a very bad fall few years ago.

and my gastric is being a pain in the ass. most of the time its fine, but when it starts acting up, its not fine at all. i duwan to grow old with all this sickness. i want to enjoy my day everyday with my loved one with no worries, no sickness and everything.

and im really afraid that wednesday comes a little too quickly? then sunday? SIGH!!! this one cannot be disclosed. its a secret and only my very close friends now.

dont worry, im gg to stay really strong and train myself to adapt to this fast paced society. i wont wait for the days to pass, i want to live my life where time is not enough for me and everyday is busy busy busy, so time pass very quickly.

cheers kailing, CHEERS!!! yeah i know its gg to be difficult and nbdy will understand how i am gg to feel. but whatever and who cares lah ok, i know what i want to do.

anyway, i had an awesome dinner and birthday surprise from rongrong and fershila. thank you for making it happen for me and xian. <3<3<3

the two organisers

and the two birthday girls. yeah, our birth dates are only 1 days apart. ;)

we had 2 cakes, a cheap one VS a expensive one. but both taste just as great cos its the thought that counts!

and we took a total of 30 polaroids. hahaha!

although its supposed to be a simple meal and it turned out to be a birthday surprise, we really had so much to laugh about, talk about and catching up to do.

its us, the awesome foursome. :) <3<3<3

and yeah, i really like this two pictures alot. i think this two photos will make me wonder one day, how have i lived my life, all that i have gone through and who are those that exactly stood by me all this moments.

especially this person. I LOVE YOU <3

Hello people. :/ i know its long since i have blogged. i'hv checked, the last one was feb22. its like apr25 now. its more than 2months!

haiya, its not that i duwan blog. but there is really nothing for me to blog during the holidays. u know how life-less i can get when its the holidays right.

but this time, its really different. there are so much so much downs during my holidays. everyday im just hoping that sch can start soon. i really have no time for myself. everyday is work work work. housework housework housework.

i cried. yes, i cried, even while working. i scald myself accidentally quite a few times, and i cried. its not bcos that the wound is pain, but its bcos im really v tired alrdy, and i really had enough of my mum's attitude towards me. she cant understand, i tried to help her whenever i can, i did my best, but the way she treats me when she is so pissed off is really treating me like rubbish.

even to think of it now, i really am gg emotional, i can feel myself crying soon. because that is really the worst moment of my life. i have been telling myself, i want to work hard when sch starts, i duwan to go back there anymore. its really hell.

although i earned quite a amount of money there, its really a torture for me. im really v upset why am i always stucked there, i feel so useless. im like a 20 years old alrdy, but im heading no where. that's why i told myself i want to study really hard when i go back to school.

with the money i earned, i bought myself a whole lot of expensive stuffs.

1. iPhone 32GB (with starhub $200 voucher)

2. wacom bamboo

3. 50mm portrait lens for my DSLR

4. feeding myself and my loved one with good food

5. went to universal

6. and of course save up the rest.

usually i wont bear to spend this amount just like this, but i got no idea, i just buy it. i want, i buy. i nvr consider about it. and Jetro always said, think for what, work so hard, its time to pamper myself. and this is all i got. most of it with the benefit for studies. yeah, i really wanna work hard!

its the final year of my studies i guess. i really have no plans on gg to a Uni, and i know my own standard, i know i can go no where. but i really hope i can do well in my portfolio and get myself a good job, take part time courses. i guess this is how my life goes, at least for now. i dont dare to think so far, although i have a dream, i dont dare to think. bcos there are so many things that are happening against my wish recently.

just like the previous post about karma. yeah, everything is just like gg against me. i tried my best to change to adapt to other things. but things are still just gg against me. i think im just plain unlucky. but i alrdy dont bother so much about it alrdy. my only aim now is to save up more for my future and study really hard. that's it. that's gonna be my life for now. dont bother to think so far, bcos when things screw up again, i will only end up crying.

and of course im not that depressed, i still have my wonderful boyfriend that always scold me and make me so upset at times but really very encouraging at most times. unknowingly, both of us have committed into this r/s for more than a year alrdy. i nvr expect it to be so long, but i want it to be counting on. :)

and my two wonderful brothers have really been showing me concern recently. although i really enjoy disturbing them most of the time, and make them so irritated with my nonsense, they have been really caring to me recently.

omg, i love them most.

and of course the people that have been supporting me quietly like my really wonderful friends. although holidays i really have no time to meet up with them, they have been really nice to cheer me up and i really miss them!

amd say hi to my mushroom head. i finally grew my hair over the shoulders. although i didnt really like the hairstyle, i managed to keep it from CNY till friday. i am really so upset and unhappy of myself. and i put the blame on Jetro and he have been saying sorry and sorry to me, and i really feel like a slut. i cnt take it anymore, i grabbed my wallet and went to the salon. its not that i wanted to blame him, i guess im so stressed up and i pushed all the blame on him. im so sorry. so to punish myself, i went to cut my hair. yeah, this short. actually i didnt want it so short. but yeah, im so depressed. so i cant be bothered with what the hairdresser do to my hair.

ytd i went to JP and walked pass the pet shop, and saw a few dogs having their grooming session. and it immediately reminded me of my sweet little nonsense dog. i went all teary eyed and quickly walk away. yeah, i really miss him. :'( and of course buddy too.. i really miss the both of them hoping around the house, sleeping on my lap and disturbing them.

whenever im on the street and i see a dog, i will always think of Nack. im wondering how is he now, i think his fur have grown long alrdy.. sighhh.. :(((

and a LITTLE bit of USS pictures we took. omg. i love you i love you i love you!!! i really appreciate all the care and concern that he have given me throughout my bad days. my really not awesome time to even be alive for the one second. without him scolding and nagging me and be really sweet after that, i really dunoe what will happen now.

thank you, my source of encouragement and happiness. :) i love you deep deep! thank you for being so sweet after u scold me, if not im really gg to turn emo and ignore you for days! hehehe! :))

i dunoe if i am being over sensitive or what. i really believe in karma.

of course, karma that affects me, be it positive or negative.

i am not sure whether what i have done recently is good or bad. but of course thinking of what i want to achieve, i have been really nice to people, unless the are nasty to me. i really wish for good karma for myself, and the people ard me, especially for my loved one.

i really have no idea what we have done to have to go through all these unfairness. all we want is just something very simple and peaceful. there is no need to be so fanciful abt anything or to be special. but it seems that there are many things that is controlling and restricting us alot.

what we have been giving is much more than we are receiving now, or is it just that what we have done is not enough, we have to reach out to more people? but now the thing that is controlling us is not our family etc. its just someone that will nvr look out to small characters like us.

i dunoe if i should continue feeling unfair now or to keep quiet and have a long prayer tonight. you know, its not what i wanted. i duwan to talk to God just because i need help and nvr worship and everything. although sometimes i feel that my prayers are answered, i feel very guilty. that's why, for very long, i nvr talk to God anymore. i believed in myself, i told myself, this are the things that i can do too. but currently, it doesn't seem to be like this.

can anyone tell me what to do now, and how to encourage the people around me, especially your precious loved one. i really dont wish to cry to sleep under my blanket tonight..

hi.... this is Nack, currently named as 皮蛋, who is under Ashlynn's tender care with the companion of another dog Jack.

the reason why his name was changed is because Nack and Jack sounded so similar, both dogs responded together and its confusing for them.

but whatever his name may be, all i wish that he adapts well and gives no troubles.

but im really very happy to see him looking much better than i have bring him from the hotel. i admit i do miss him now, but i really have to let go. pictures once in a while is enough for me.

look at him, forever greedy with food and the act cute standing position to put the hands on the lap and slightly point up his butt. hehehe, really hope he is a dear! :)

and yeah, my year 2 of poly life has officially ended! :) its my last UT today alrdy. its the 1st time i left early for UTs. hehehe, usually is not enough time to complete...

aft UT i rush cab down to canteen to help mum, so that kords, helping the morning shift can go home to do his project.

i came back home, took a nap and started ironing, for goodness sake, the amount was one box full. omg, accumulate and the new year clothes. damn. finally i finished ironing them. im like super happy! u got no idea how happy i was!

alright. its really time to plan the time for this holidays. i should really make full use of the holiday and do some meaningful things. i am talking serious shit right now. its because everytime during holidays, i nvr fail to mention this,, but end up, i did nothing. D: im great, i know. (Y)

*roll eyes* hahahaha

this holiday, im gg to

1. get my laptop repaired. the stupid battery and electricity socket is not working well at all. and sometimes it just shuts down by itself. and for goodness sake, that day for my web app UT, it shut down. of all times. i alrdy dunoe how to do my UT, and it shut down, plus im late. i really feel like giving up at the moment. but i managed to SIT THROUGH until time is up. really hope i dont have to retake my web app UT please.

2. work hard and save lots of money.

reason is bcos i still owe my brothers money and i want to change my camera lens. not only that, i also want to get a 50mm f/1.8 lens, hopefully by this week. also, save up for my polaroid and holga camera. and hopefully, if i can go for the japan DIDM trip, i really wish i had the money too.

3. my portfolio and FYP

omg, nearing to year 3 alrdy, there's really alot of things to do. portfolio! i still owe Cavvy my review. -.- im really tired bcos of this busy sem. let me take a rest 1st. hahaha

and of course, there's FYP. really hope we can get the proposal. i really like it alot, and really hope to do well, of course in my studies too, during my year3. i hope its nvr too late. i hope my gpa when i graduate will hit 3.0 and above..

4. DIET.

omfg. for ages alrdy i have been saying this. but this time i am much more determined. as long as my personal stuffs are settled, i want to go swimming and jogging again. i dont care if my leg hurts any more. if it really hurts again, i will drag it for an Xray. thats it. full stop.

i really wish to dress up on my 21st b'day, although i have no idea whether i want to celebrate or not. of course, not only for my 21st bday, i also wish to dress up nicely everyday. looking at other girls look so pretty without the need to really wear fanciful, im really jealous one ok. after all, im still a girl. :S

5. start on my driving lessons

i have been dragging on this for super long alrdy. my PDL have expired dunoe more than 1 year ago. haha, i know, im great. but this holiday, i really wish to start on my driving lessons and get my license by the end of this year or the most, the beginning of next year.

i feel that i really have changed. more goals set and more determined this time round. but i really wish my determination lasts! :) happy girl is me..